when you read the first marriage in history, it’s found in the constitution of our country. Section Genesis subsection 2 article 24.
here’s what it says. first of all it says God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden. The word Eden is a complicated word in Hebrew the concept and our American hippie very complicated. It’s not referring to like a God with trees even though I’m sure they were probably in that environment it’s referring to order the word needy and my book or they will explain this book on praise and worship they make the matter in the bookstores here very important do it even means spot. It means delightful spot. It means open door it’s a complicated word. It’s a spot on the earth where for the moment God has an open door from heaven on earth that’s where I put the man in his presence so that’s why we can’t find Eden today. Eden is not a place, it’s an environment. No archeologisch can find Eden. Why? It’s an atmosphere it’s the presence when man sinned about the God drove man from the garden of the atmosphere atmosphere when back up to heaven.
The First Thing A Man Needs Is Presence
But when God made the first male he put him in this presence the first thing God gave the man was his presence Eden. So the first thing a man needs is not a woman. The most important thing a man needs, a male needs is the presence of God and a woman should meet you in the presence of god.
Some women amaze me. They leave the presence of God, go in the bush to find a brother, and then try to drag him back to the presences. Eve met Adam in Eden.
The Second Thing A Man Needs Is To Work
Then this next things are told the mail one simple word Genesis 2 verse 15, work. Can I say it again. Work. God gave man work before a woman. Everybody say weird before a woman that means a man needs a job before he gets a woman. God priorities are very clear.
The Third Thing A Man Needs Is To Cultivate
The first thing I told the man Genesis 2:15 he says cultivating. Cultivate means to bring out the best in everything around you to maximize the potential of everything around you to make everything fruitful he only said that to the male. That’s why God would never give a male a finished woman.
The male was created by God to create what he wants. The woman you’re looking for a brother doesn’t exist. She’s in your head. Your job is to take the raw material you married and cultivate it into the woman in your head.
So you being married for 20 years and you still don’t make the product you get that’s your fault. Jesus Christ is a real man he’s a real man a real man. Jesus Christ has a wife a woman beautiful woman her name is ekklesia. He said about his wife he said husband love your wife like I love my wife now you tell us how to do it he says you wash it with the word then you remove every spot every wrinkle every blemish and present her to yourself.
whoa that’s mine I did that see that that’s my baby I produced that look at her look at her well tell it to yourself he said when you see your husband just keep telling him cultivate me baby come to me baby
if you’re right putting on a bit of weight and you don’t like the Frenchy putting on weight don’t criticize her wake her
up 6 o’clock come baby that’s good job cultivate your confidence come on baby come on baby come on come on baby you don’t like undress take it down to are you Playboy come on let yourself no
no help them babies up my lady little bit
cultivate me baby
she can’t speak good English senator school and pay for her tuition.
The Forth Thing A Man Needs Is To Protect
the fourth thing I told the man he says guard the garden. The male supposed to be to protect him everything on this kid that’s why God gave you a stronger bone frame a bigger muscle mass not to abuse the woman, but to protect the woman.
The Fifth Thing A Man Needs Is To Teach
The last thing God gave the man was his word. God says Adam do not touch the tree. God never told the woman about the tree never which means the male was the only one who got the Word of God. His job was to teach his wife the Word of God.
You know what’s wrong in Texas the woman knows more word than the man.
Nothing can frustrate a woman faster than this statement a woman would always ask a man so what do you think and that dummy would answer what do you think. Don’t do that brother don’t do that.
She is looking for knowledge and direction.
That was the last command God gave them in just a tree that’s verse 15 and 16 and 17 then in verse 18 God says
It’s Not Good For This Man To Be Alone.
now don’t just read the statement fast slow down it’s not good for this man to be alone what man the man who is in his presence working can cultivate you can protect you and teach you the word .that is classic.
So here’s the problem. If you meet a man who don’t like his presence ain’t working can’t cultivation improve you can’t protect you internal God’s Word it is good for that man to be